- To decrease the motivation of a person or a group.
In this case, a person, me. In the Ennegram chart, it says that type 7's sometimes fall into type 1 which is perfectionism.
And I thought, what a load of horse crap.
But tonight I realized that not letting someone else do the job, because you think they will do it badly equals perfectionism.
Because I do that most of the time, "let me do it, you'll make it ugly."
And I'm up at midnight because I don't want ugliness.
So maybe that chart is right...maybe. (small revelation)
And I am so demotivated. Big time.
1 comment:
yeah. that is probably perfectionism, or something. I still fall into that trap sometimes darnit. However we grow and learn our entire life, and maybe one day you'll be able to let someone else do it.
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